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Educating a Toddler to Become an 'English Gentleman' – Does It Justify the Money?

Child education concept
The firm behind the advert claims that what seems like "luxury or oddity" is truly "deliberate investment in early learning".

"A family based in north London wants to find an extraordinary and experienced educator to support their youngest child on his early path to turning into an English gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might naturally overlook the wording "first-steps" as just figurative language.

Yet, it may be the most significant part of this unique employment listing, as it seeks to hire a tutor for a one-year-old.

Numerous of applications have since been submitted since the anonymous family advertised their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who must be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the advert has gained notice across the media, with several asking why?

Innovative Idea

The CEO, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their hunt, said that notwithstanding early doubt, he viewed the concept "far sighted", and "advanced".

When he met the family, he said they recognized the unusual aspect of their demand, and how immature their son is.

Nevertheless, they explained that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to get a tutor, as they had waited until their firstborn was five, and by that point "cultural conditioning had already become established".

What exactly does the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam answered. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".

He stated the older sibling had picked up "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had adopted their cultural ways. The family explained to Adam they hoped to prevent the same situation to repeat itself with their infant.

The strategy: To engage a British tutor, who needs to speak with RP, to influence the baby from day one.

Tutoring discussion
The education firm state the post has started a wider debate about how families perceive education, elitism and the part of home and culture in development.

Natural Absorption

"A great deal of the learning at the beginning here is kind of absorbed naturally," explained the expert.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will pick up the UK customs they want to impart.

He explained the tutor needed to be someone who attended "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family hope to send their son to".

"The tutor simply needs to be the right kind of person, they'll be doing things they may not realize they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Cost Not Relevant

The family informed the expert the successful candidate should ideally also have knowledge of or enthusiasm in riding, winter sports, artistic pursuits and music so as to shape the child in a wide range of hobbies.

More than that though, he explained the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a variety of classes so the child would be "horseback riding and learning an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's perspective, assisting their son develop into a "British gentleman" will bring about achievement and open doors.

"For all the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's definitely a status symbol," he comments.

However, notwithstanding all this instruction in "Britishness", might the child adopt what is termed cultural bias from the international family he is raised by regardless?

"Yes", answered the CEO. "The family know this may not work, but they've merely embraced the perspective of, 'why not attempt it and we'll proceed as soon as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he stated.

Overly Optimistic

Several in the education sector who express similar doubts.

Another CEO, head and founder of a tutoring service, who also offer personal educators, wrote that "the journey of becoming bicultural, or indeed, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not manufactured."

Peter explained that he had relocated from China to the United Kingdom at the age of childhood, and had been raised knowing and embodying two backgrounds. He continued to study at a prestigious UK institution.

Peter Cui portrait
The executive was the first individual born in China to be elected to the post of Treasurer of the Cambridge Union Society.

"The concept that a single person can act as a embodiment of Britishness, an individual who can in some way transplant the attributes of a UK sophisticate to a one-year-old child, seems to me naive and unfeasible," he wrote.

"From my perspective, employing a distinctly British tutor from babyhood will does not automatically achieve the outcome they desire.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and nevertheless I have been privileged enough to enjoy numerous of the opportunities they hope for their son."

He stated: "The reality is, self-identity can not be dictated from the outside; it must be chosen, and it must be internally driven."

Purchasing UK Culture

Naturally, UK identity is something the CEO believes can be instructed – and commercialized.

"In my view the situation that the world views us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating

Written by

Jasmine Monroe

Elena is a senior HR specialist with over 15 years experience in international talent acquisition and cross-cultural team building.

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